Hey Dona - Thank you so much for sharing so openly! I love how you approached this topic, and your takeaways feel so spot on. I've lived through this too.
Yes, we ALL benefit from women who are vocal during sex. I've had the pleasure of many phenomenal sexual encounters with men who took the time to learn how female bodies work (and mine specifically). I also helped multiple ex-partners go from awkward sex to OH. MY. GOD!! sex. I even convinced one that he might have an alternate life as a erotic novelist (turns out he could tell some vivid, naughty stories once he found his voice).
I appreciate you! We need more brave voices like yours :)