The pros of deleting my accounts seem to outweigh the cons. — I started using social media early on. At 14 years old, my best friend and I sat in my parent’s basement setting up Myspace accounts. I absorbed various social rules, like how to select your “top friends”: boyfriend first, then your best girlfriend — right? At 28 years old, I’m…

In our “attention economy,” we need a plan for using tech tools –without them using us. — Growing up, I got my first flip phone at 15 years old. My smartphone and laptop weren’t part of my life until after college. Since then, these two devices have opened up a world of possibilities to create, connect, and find entertainment. In the last few years, I’ve experienced urgency…

Over an eight-year simplicity journey, here are my favorite finance approaches. — In the past ten years, I’ve had financial roller coasters: earning well over six figures and also a waitress salary. Along the way, I’m proud of walking away from jobs and relationships that weren’t supporting me. Making choices based on inner fulfillment continues to bring greater freedom. Being curious and…

Consistent self-care has fueled many brave life choices. — Over the past ten years, I’ve made space for nurturing myself most mornings. During that time, I’ve done many things I’m proud of. …

I am breaking a multi-generational trauma cycle. — Two years ago, I discovered narcissistic abuse within my family and adult relationships. My depth therapist helped me identify the behavior traits and symptoms. As I dove into recommended reading, I watched the lightbulbs spark as I reflected on the past 26 years with this new lens. Since quitting my…

Through 8 years of simplifying, I discovered “enough.” — Turning down a promotion at Facebook felt scary. Even though I had a huge savings account, I worried about losing my social status and struggled with feeling like a failure. After all, I’d worked hard to get there. …

After eight years of minimalism, I still use these often. — When I first began simplifying, it was mainly out of frustration. I read minimalist blogs and realized I could create a happier relationship with my things. I could be more intentional about what I owned and only keep things that align with my well-being and desires. Over the past eight…

This decision has improved my life so much. — At 28 years old, I’ve been reflecting on my life decisions, and selling my car was one of the best ones. In a time of exasperation and inspiration, I decided to try the cyclist lifestyle. …

Through eight years of minimalism, I learned to relax, get creative, and find my style; Tan France helped. — Creating a beautiful, simple wardrobe took me a long time. When I embraced minimalism eight years ago, I owned so many clothes that “letting go” felt simple. But sculpting an everyday “look” that I didn’t need to think about, seemed more challenging. After getting rid of “obvious” items, I thought…